Estate Planning for LGBTQ+ Couples: What to Discuss With Clients

Here are the key considerations LGBTQ+ couples should discuss, whether they are legally married or not.

Thoughtful estate planning is a must for every client’s financial plan, and it is extremely critical for same-sex couples and families. As June, Pride Month, has just ended, it’s a good time to have an estate planning check-in with your clients in the LGBTQ+ community. 

Legal Marriage Benefits

Of course, as a result of the landmark 2015 Supreme Court ruling that legalized same-sex marriage, married LGBTQ+ couples today can benefit from estate planning strategies that they were once excluded from. There are many financial protections that are designated to spouses in a legal marriage, including those regarding inheritance laws and Social Security benefits. Walk your clients through the rules and laws specific to their situations and where they live.

The legislation also made it possible for LGBTQ+ spouses to better plan for and protect their interests and wishes after they are gone, especially in the event that one of them dies unexpectedly. This is another reason why proper estate planning is so critical. Now is a good time to remind clients that nothing should be left to chance in the event either spouse suffers an unexpected medical incident or tragedy. 

LGBTQ+ couples today are also eligible for the unlimited estate tax marital deduction. This means that all assets of a deceased spouse can be passed to the surviving spouse tax-free. Couples can also give assets to each other without paying gift tax or income tax, under the gift tax exemption. 

Estate Planning Basics

For members of LGBTQ+ families who are not legally married, be sure to discuss the importance of establishing a legally secure estate plan. This entails outlining specific directives and preparing a will, for starters. 

Here are the key estate planning considerations LGBTQ+ couples should discuss, whether they are legally married or not, along with advice to share with clients regarding the importance of each. If clients already have these pieces of an estate plan in place, they should be reviewed often. If they do not have them in place, now is the time.

There are services and groups that can help educate financial advisors on the needs of the LGBTQ+ community, so you can continue to be more inclusive with your services and offerings. Here are resources to become familiar with: 

The industry is also evolving to meet the needs of today’s diverse clientele. In a recent innovation, financial planning software has added new profile options to support advisors as they broaden their conversations to address these topics and continue becoming more inclusive. Financial planning solutions now offer different gender identifications to better address the needs of every client a financial advisor may have.


Rose Palazzo is group head at Envestnet MoneyGuide, which is fully vested in its financial wellness ecosystem for enabling people to live an intelligently connected financial life.