Americans are marrying later or not at all, and more are cohabiting. The median age for first marriages is now 27 for women and 29 for men, compared with 20 for women and 23 for men in 1960, according to Pew Research. And about a quarter of those who have never married are living with a partner. Given those stats and the growing rate of divorce among those 50 and older, it’s important for couples to organize their finances and avoid fighting about money.
In the new book “Loving in the Grown Zone,” Zara D. Green and Alfred A. Edmond, Jr., co-principals of A2Z Personal Growth Enterprises, list some major money-related mistakes unmarried adults in romantic relationships should never make for love. That chapter’s title: “Stop Financial Foolery in the Name of Love.”
Here are seven mistakes for your cohabiting clients to avoid:
1. Don’t lend money casually without a written agreement that lays out repayment terms. Otherwise you may never get the money back. You will have no way to prove the funds were a loan, not a gift.
2. Never co-sign a loan. Three out of four times, you, not the borrower, will end up repaying the loan. If you can’t afford it, your credit rating will be tarnished, not theirs.