When you lose a long-time client, it can feel as if you've being abandoned. You've stood together through what seems like a lifetime of battles and challenges, always finding a way through, no matter how difficult. You had a relationship; now it's over. But it's more than likely your client didn't actually abandon you. It's far more likely that you abandoned him.
One of these three things could be the cause of your loss. Study them, make changes where necessary and prevent the loss of your clients in the future.
1. Neglect. The most common way to lose a client is through neglect. Relationships (of all sorts) require careful tending. Ignoring your clients is a form of neglect and can have dire consequences.
At the beginning of your relationship, you'd call. You'd make appointments for face-to-face visits. You'd send articles that your client would find helpful in his business. And now…nothing.
Neglect is form of abandonment. When you discover that your client has begun a new relationship with your competitor, don't fool yourself: He didn't abandon you. You abandoned him.
2. Complacency. Another way you can abandon your client is to become complacent. Remember how you used to ensure all your client's problems and challenges were taken care of? Remember how you used to follow up to make sure she was getting the results she needed? Well, she remembers too. And she can feel the empty space where the salesperson who cared about her used to be.
Just because you have a client now doesn't mean you are entitled to keep her. Just because you created tremendous value for her in the past doesn't mean you have a right to her business in perpetuity.